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| | | | | | | | | | | Posted by L'Ali Wow... Amusing read. Just to note, sluts are also the first ones killed in horror movies. |
| | | Posted by sQualie What about so called players thought? Men that have had multiple partners, how do they fair on the settling down and being faithful scale? That article was sexist and one sided. Probably written by an average, or below, guy that frustrated he can't get, or keep, the hot girl. |
| | | Posted by sQualie Well according to the article, I'm fucked either way. Hahaha! *and I didn't even think I was a slut before I read this... |
What about so called players thought? Men that have had multiple partners, how do they fair on the settling down and being faithful scale? That article was sexist and one sided. Probably written by an average (or below) guy that's frustrated he can't get or keep the hot girl. My advise to him: Stop watching so much porn! It may look good on screen but trust me, it doesn't feel as good as it seems. |
| Post by WarBird69 Up until the day she moved out, I stayed true to my vows, didn't cheat, etc (even after 2+ years of no sex). Now, the marriage is over in all but the legal/paperwork aspect. So...take that as you will. |
| | | Posted by ActionSatisfaction Esq. http://roissy.word...ts-make-bad-wives/ The whole blog is quite interesting. Thoughts? |
| | | Posted by L'Ali But did your marriage end by infidelity or other reasons? And kudos to you for being true to your vows till she moved out. |
| | | Posted by dirt No, it is not interesting. It is backwards and juvenile. Let me deconstruct this persons argument. |
| | | Posted by dirt No, it is not interesting. It is backwards and juvenile. Let me deconstruct this persons argument. |
| Post by WarBird69 Things happen for a reason. I'm much better off today than I was a little over one year ago. I'm a different person, both physically (lost 35ish lbs) and mentally. From the ashes of my marriage, I have been reborn anew. C'est la vie. |
| | | Posted by dirt It is also my personal belief that everyone is potentially bisexual and polyamourous. That it is conditioning that causes people to limit themselves. |
| Posted by dirt Look at every relationship that has ever fallen apart on you. It did so for these key reasons: Abuse, stagnation, miscommunication, and/or complacency. The last one is tricky and shows up in a myriad of ways, most commonly "growing apart". How this ties into polyamoury is that humans are complex. At times, a person will deny feelings because of moral objections to cheating. To deny feelings on a constant basis will lead to going unconscious both in the relationship and emotionally. People are complex, and they are always changing. Everyday. When you have one or even two unconscious people in a relationship, they will drift apart. |
| Posted by dirt Another fact. No one person can meet all your needs. Some needs, need to be fulfilled to allow for growth. When those needs are not met, resentments arise. This can lead to abuse. Most people, due to the fact they subscribe to our cultures mode of being do not know how to communicate properly. They don't know how to communicate needs, desires, expectations, "rules" etc etc etc. In some cases the thought has never occurred to them. Now imagine having to negotiate an open relationship. |
| | Berkshire Hunt | | | | | Posted by dirt Now advice: if you ever meet someone who has uncontrollable jealousy or uses the word slut in a derogatory manor, note these as red flags and steer clear away. You will only waste your time or worse. |
| | | | | Posted by Yield Other red flags include him being an alcoholic and punching you in the head. I know this information is pertinent to UER women. |
| | | Posted by ActionSatisfaction Esq. Cleverness points (-10) |
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