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Location: Tha 248 to the 586 to the 313 all the way to the 734 Gender: Male Total Likes: 10 likes
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| | | advice?if you got any..tell me < on 11/21/2014 9:47 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | This girl and myself have been seeing each other for awhile(it has been roughly two months)(That may not seem like a long time to some of you but whatever) anyway..we were doing fine and dandy(we had seemed to click right away..im not sayin we feel madly in love but ya know what i mean),talking on Skype when I wasn't able to drive to see her(it's not that far,plus i drive an old 4 banger so it's decent on the wallet too)When I wasn't working on my weekends or days off i would save up what was left of my paycheck and go on up to see her and as I said we were all fine and dandy that is up until a night or so ago. Out of the blue she said she wasn't sure what she wanted,that we were rushing(which we're not..at least in my opinion..but hey,what does it matter what i think,right?!)She had also mentioned how she needed time alone and all this other shit.I found it kind of weird how that out of nowhere she makes a decision like that after i've been helping her with her son when i could,watching him for her while she went to visit friends and such and i even put food in the house for all of us(but more so for her and her son) It's almost like she's pushing me away or trying to.But when I brought how I feel to her attention she became a little defensive and stated something to the fact that If I want to leave she isn't going to beg me to stay and that sort of thing,when I never even mentioned anything about leaving her in the dark.I don't know..maybe I wasted my time Well Looks like it'll just be all about me,makin that cash money and booze now..at least booze has never let me down..that i know of haha NOW WHERES MAAA BOTTLE,DAMNIT!
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| shadowedsmile
Location: Northwestern Ontario Gender: Female Total Likes: 157 likes
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| | | Re: advice?if you got any..tell me < Reply # 8 on 11/27/2014 7:46 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by G to the Race This reads like a classic case of Nice Guy. I'm at a loss to understand why women push away men who are nice to them, but they do it a lot. I guess the danger factor of being w/abusive men is too tempting for some women.
| Most abusive men start out as the "Nice Guy", and often like to guilt trip women because they spent x number of dollars, helped them do x, have done nothing but favours for them, etc etc...(I was with one for almost four years, they will even try to convince you that it's YOUR fault they "had" to break your bones, and besides...they bought you dinner so it's fine!) I'm gonna agree with Shawn here. And if you don't regularly see someone, it can be hard to see or know that they're questioning how things are going, or what went wrong...maybe she's just not feeling it, and doesn't want you to keep committing time and money if she's not sure?
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