fuck long distance relationships. it seems like a kind of forced non intimacy safety net that some people tend to gravitate toward.

Posted by sharon fuck long distance relationships. it seems like a kind of forced non intimacy safety net that some people tend to gravitate toward.

So what's the alternative? Celibacy and a lack of companionship?

yep, or just travel around and find someone where ever you stop and the urge strikes. but, a word of caution, don't get attaced. it'll fuck you up!

or you could always try match.com. good times.

Posted by sharon yep, or just travel around and find someone where ever you stop and the urge strikes. but, a word of caution, don't get attaced. it'll fuck you up! or you could always try match.com. good times.

What if you can't find someone where you stop?

I'm not paying for a online dating service.

hasn't happened. luckily, as a chick, i can make my own fun. actually, in north carolina i consistently wasn't given even a sideways glance. single chick walking into a bar to play darts and drink gin by herself, doesn't even get a hello. to north carolina guys, i just wasn't on the radar.
match.com delivers and it's only 30/month. i say cheap for a connecting/weeding out service.

Posted by Frozen 30 miles? Hell, I drove 30 miles to work and 30 miles back every day last summer.

hell thats the distance i traveled to see her when we lived close, a trip i made often. now it's 1,451 miles a 21 hour drive. not that i drive to go see her now.

What about the long distance relationship where you're both living under the same fucking roof?

My girlfriend is going to Italy for a month

Posted by NextelCupMK My girlfriend is going to Italy for a month

Dude, you are SO getting cheated on.

Hook that bitch up to a polygraph when she gets back so we can take bets now.

Long distance sucks. I can say from experience that if it starts from a long distance and stays that way it probably won't work. Been there done that from 2,000 miles. Got some frequent flyer miles and a broken heart. I was lucky and came out with a great friend though.

30 miles is nothing.

sorry dude, But like that's only a half hour drive.

Posted by KublaKhan What about the long distance relationship where you're both living under the same fucking roof?

now that one sucks

You dont gotta tell me...

I met the most amazing man when i was 17, he lived far back then (We both didnt have cars) we broke up, lost touch for a few years, started talking again....

where does he live now you ask?

Kentucky...wtf

broke up again cuz well obviously we just did the best we could with the time we had...

some time passed before I met anyone else worth more than 3 weeks of my time... Now Im dating the most awesome, sweet, funny guy.... and he lives an hour and a half away. Given, not as bad as kentucky but its not making things easy.

If you see each other twice a week, it can work. A lot of my past relationships involved seeing each other TOO much.... the flame burns out too fast.

Its funny that 2 years ago I said I would not consider one. The last girl I dated lived in the Washington DC suburbs, and I live in the NYC suburbs. The one before that in Delaware... Its like there are no nice girls in NY.

quit looking for nice girls

Posted by CowboyPenner So what's the alternative? Celibacy and a lack of companionship? ALL THE FREE TIME IN THE WORLD.

Posted by KublaKhan Posted by CowboyPenner So what's the alternative? Celibacy and a lack of companionship? ALL THE FREE TIME IN THE WORLD.

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