Posted by Senseriffic lol hey why not!! long distance ALWAYS works!!! yeah I mean just staying away from men for a good long while... my secret plan is to actually turn lesbian so Ill never need to worry again. I finally had myself a non-abusive relationship... actually i was abusive toward myself, I definitely did things to make myself less appealing to him....

When WR told you to get a backbone, I though he was being a bit rude and un-empathic. But I kinda have to agree. To put it in a more positive light, I little self respect will get you a long way.