For those of you who knew I was going through a rotten divorce, especially those who supported me through it, I have an announcement to make:

It is over; I am DIVORCED!

THANKS for the ongoing encouragement from my UER friends.

Sorry you had to go through so much, it is just not fair. I hope you find peace and happiness that you deserve.

Congratulations,good for you! Been wondering how things were going for ya,I'm glad you decided not to sign up for more years of bs and mistrust,you deserve so much better.



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So...revenge sex? Rebound fling?

Call me.

Well thank god that whole fiasco is over and done with.

Dude fucked up and you won.

I am proud of you for keeping so positive through all of this.

Kudos!

Congratulations Debi.

Took a lot of courage to do this and this is the best favour you've ever done for yourself.

Posted by Wiccan http://i276.photob...ofesserplum/aa.jpg ;)

Great pic there Wiccan.

Yeah, thanks everyone. Wiccan; I actually thought of making that pic my new avatar, its great!

Like they say, everything comes full circle. That jerk never wanted to be home while he was married to me. I used to tell him "Right now you only want to be at the bars. But one day this will be over and you'll be able to be at the bars all you want. And I assure you, when that day finally comes, the only place you'll want to be is back home".

And so it is. He can be at the bars all he wants now. But guess where he's crying to be . . . .

BTW Kubla, call me

That would be an awesome avatar for you,Debi!

I'm so happy for you,I've been helping my sister who just separated with hers after nine years. He did the same stuff your ex did,and I just can't believe the positive change in my sister now. She says "of course I feel good ,I just lost about 180 pounds!"

Best of luck to you,always here to yammer with you if you need it.

Posted by Debi Yeah, thanks everyone. Wiccan; I actually thought of making that pic my new avatar, its great! Like they say, everything comes full circle. That jerk never wanted to be home while he was married to me. I used to tell him "Right now you only want to be at the bars. But one day this will be over and you'll be able to be at the bars all you want. And I assure you, when that day finally comes, the only place you'll want to be is back home". And so it is. He can be at the bars all he wants now. But guess where he's crying to be . . . . BTW Kubla, call me

I've been in some dingy, shitty dirt-bag bar nursing a pint and listening to some poor SOB cry and cry and cry. It's pathetic. He's going on about some chick who fucked him over, and dude is wailing and blubbering like a wee little girl who lost her favourite My Little Pony. I'm trying like hell to get out of here, but dude has his arm around my shoulder and he keeps sobbing and his nose is running and I think he pissed his pants.

Send help, ASAP.

Oh, so I see you met my ex. Why didn't you tell me you were in town?

Really, congrats. A lot of women fall into a "battered wife" condition. I'm helping a friend out of that right now.