Posted by PorkChopExpress GotPaisley - That woman is not a friend. She is a user. I know it's hard to do, especially when your such a nice person, but you have to cut her off. Completely. Do not do any favors for her ever again. I also recommend breaking off contact with her for a while. That should send her the message that you are pissed.

I really didn't want it to come down to cutting her off as I do enjoy spending time with her. We go shopping & antiquing together. Also, I like going to dinner with her as she enjoys going to some of the more "upscale" & trendy restaurants with me that my fiancée won't try.

As of right now, I will get her mail & water her plants because I did say I would.
I'm not going to invite her to dinner as much as I usually do only if I am making something when I know there will be a ton of leftovers.

The only other issue is..I clean her house for $20.00 an hour. Usually, 2 hours every other week. I don't have to do it but its super easy money as her house is spotless & everything has a place.