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Shael
Location: Witherbee, NY. Gender: Female Total Likes: 7 likes
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| | | Re: Are Your Parents Still Around < Reply # 9 on 12/4/2008 8:58 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by Samurai i've been thinking about this for a couple weeks and it has been nagging at me, probably one of the things that is making me an insufferable jerkoff lately. One thing that I have been worried about is losing my parents. My mom is 57 and my father is 58... i mean, they are getting to that age where they need to start planning for the end of their lives and that really scares and upsets me. I am one of those people that would be lost without my parents around. I mean, they have been divorced since the mid-80's, but they have always been there for advice or help, or even the odd twenty bucks here and there. What would I do without them?
| It's the time of the year. It's been like that for me too, but not lately, thankfully. I've just been frustrated with the way things are and with work. I honestly don't think you need to worry so much. I think they're both going to be here for a while. Sure, it's nice to plan all that stuff ahead of time, but I don't think either of them are going to need it for a while. I lost my grandmother last month...so I'm still kind of reeling from it. What bothers me most about it is it happened over a few days. She had most everything done already, all we had to really do was pick out what we thought she'd like as far as burial arrangements go. Sam, I doubt your parents are going anywhere for a while. Mine will probably die off long long long before yours do. It's just being it's Christmastime, we all get maudlin and sentimental and wish we were 10 again getting up at 5am on Christmas morning. I know I do, especially this year. With the hell I've been going through at work, I wish it were simple like it used to be. Shael
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| | | Re: Are Your Parents Still Around < Reply # 11 on 1/27/2009 2:50 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | My mom is 78 and doing pretty well considering she birthed 12 kids, two of whom died in early adulthood. My dad passed away in 2005 @ 81, he didn't suffer long, but kind of "wasn't there" for the last year or so of his life. Kind of prickish to say, but I'm glad he went as quickly as he did; I couldn't afford the emotional toll of watching him deteriorate. Funny, my mom is healthy w/minor ailments but I don't think of her as frail, she's Ok staying home and not going out much, and still bitches @ my sisters. And, while my father's death was tough, I barely knew him. My mother, on the other hand, is pretty close.
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