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monster
Location: Sugarland, TX / Minneapolis MN Gender: Female Total Likes: 5 likes
I am the thing that goes bump in the night
| | | Can UER help me get out of his friend zone? < on 12/30/2008 1:21 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | I have had a crush on this guy for about 8 months. We are good friends and have been gradually getting closer. He likes me too, or so I thought. A couple weeks ago, I found out that he just likes me as a friend. Awhile back, he told me that he did like me, but was deciding whether or not he did didn't. I asked him about it and he either said he thought he liked me but realized he didn't, or he never really did. He had some family issues and has been emotionally stressed so that might be why he thought he did. He knows that I like him and he seems comfortable with it. He told me that I am, however his best friend. Before I found out that he doesn't really love me, he asked me to go ice skating with him and some other places. The equivalent of a date, I guess. I go over to his house a lot and we hang out and really enjoy each other's company a lot. When I was about to leave from his house, he said that he really didn't want me to leave. I ended up spending the night. In a couple of weeks, I plan on taking him to this abandoned house by the railroad tracks. He seems excited about me going there. I want to be so much more than just friends with this guy. My math tutor told me that the best marriages often start out as being friends. My question to you is: What can I do to get out of his friend zone and have him think of me as more than just a friend?
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| dirt
Location: Oakland, CA Gender: Male Total Likes: 0 likes
Je suis très aimable et très caustique.
| | | | | Re: Can UER help me get out of his friend zone? < Reply # 1 on 12/30/2008 6:17 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by monster I have had a crush on this guy for about 8 months. We are good friends and have been gradually getting closer. He likes me too, or so I thought. A couple weeks ago, I found out that he just likes me as a friend. Awhile back, he told me that he did like me, but was deciding whether or not he did didn't. I asked him about it and he either said he thought he liked me but realized he didn't, or he never really did. He had some family issues and has been emotionally stressed so that might be why he thought he did. He knows that I like him and he seems comfortable with it. He told me that I am, however his best friend. Before I found out that he doesn't really love me, he asked me to go ice skating with him and some other places. The equivalent of a date, I guess. I go over to his house a lot and we hang out and really enjoy each other's company a lot. When I was about to leave from his house, he said that he really didn't want me to leave. I ended up spending the night. In a couple of weeks, I plan on taking him to this abandoned house by the railroad tracks. He seems excited about me going there. I want to be so much more than just friends with this guy. My math tutor told me that the best marriages often start out as being friends. My question to you is: What can I do to get out of his friend zone and have him think of me as more than just a friend?
| Ask yourself this really important question: How can you be friends with someone you don't love? Think of it from both perspectives. There are feelings, then there are decisions. Love just kinda exists(on both parts), and from there, you decide where that relationship goes. So to answer your question, there is no way to force what you want. But you can always be honest. Trust me, honesty will go far. Without it, be prepared for heartbreak. Just know that he can't read your mind. Life is not a romantic comedy or a fairytale. "Kiss to soon may be the full stop to the tale if love; a kiss in time saveth many huffy moments and wasted words. But a kiss too late-is the devil and all" ~The Maxims of Merlin
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Hi!
| | | Re: Can UER help me get out of his friend zone? < Reply # 9 on 1/16/2009 12:08 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Monster, aren't you like 16? Take a step back, be a kid for a while, don't worry about relationships. Dear God, woman, you have your entire life to worry about that crap. If you don't want that, the taking your shirt off thing should do it, but then you may just be a friend w/benefits for him. You can't make him love you, not in a million years, so just relax and play video games or explore, or play w/dolls or whatever kids do now.
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