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Shawn W.
Location: Niagara Falls, NY Gender: Male Total Likes: 131 likes
Optimistic Pessimist
| | | | | Re: No More Mr.Nice Guy < Reply # 3 on 5/28/2009 5:00 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by G to the Race They are just dudes with vaginas |
That's a disturbing image. Okay, seriously speaking, I was with my last girlfriend for 15 months. We were both serious enough about the relationship that at the 8 1/2 month mark, we bought commitment rings, which were to later act also as engagement rings, which we exchanged on Christmas 2006, since that seemed to be where the relationship was heading. If only that's where it had ended up. Long story short, I blew it. Somehow, from that Christmas to the time that we'd broken up in mid-June of 2007, her level of happiness with the relationship had gone from being through the roof to being close to nothing. The blame was squarely on me for that and the failure of the relationship. Why have I told you all of this? Because I wasn't an a-hole, well, at least in my opinion, and I was with a woman who loved me so much that we'd already started talking about what kind of wedding we were going to have. What killed it is that I got complacent, taking her and the relationship for granted. I guess, maybe in that sense, I was an a-hole, and I'm now forced to live with the fact that my life would be a lot different, a lot happier now, if I hadn't gone into cruise control and acted like the status quo was never going to change. When you find someone new, don't just treat them like a queen. Be attentive, be communicative, and do not, under any circumstances, get complacent. You'll find someone eventually, who will give you the respect that you deserve, but don't forget to respect them, as well. I hope that this helps. P.S. My brother was in the Corps for 8 2/3 years, and received an honorable discharge just over a year ago. Semper Fi.
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| shellyl
Location: Lenoir NC Gender: Female Total Likes: 10 likes
I have learned not sweat the petty things and not to pet the sweaty things.
| | | Re: No More Mr.Nice Guy < Reply # 4 on 5/28/2009 5:14 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by Shawn W.
When you find someone new, don't just treat them like a queen. Be attentive, be communicative, and do not, under any circumstances, get complacent. You'll find someone eventually, who will give you the respect that you deserve, but don't forget to respect them, as well. I hope that this helps.
| That says a lot. I have been in a long term relationship and that is just what happened. Everything got comfortable and went south. There has been so much trying to fix it and get back what we used to have but I am afraid that may never be possible. There has been too much hurt involved. The the older couples that I have known over the years act like they just met. Leaving lipstick notes on the mirror in the morning, holding hands and giving cards just because. They are so happy just like I remember being at one time. They might have recliner chairs in the family room but they never sit in them. They cuddle on the sofa. There has to be something to the advise they give. Work at love like it was for the first kiss even though it is kiss 1 million and it will feel as wonderful as the first. Ok now I will dream of how it felt to want to be with someone right now, this minute and not dread going home.
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