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Location: Logtec is the UER representative for Scarborough, Ontario. Gender: Male Total Likes: 11 likes
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| | | | Re: Am I the Christmas Grinch < Reply # 2 on 12/21/2009 10:29 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by jacunda OK, need some input, here is the situation: The wife and I had decided that due to economic circumstances and general not needing anything that we would not get presents for one another this year. We would still do the children and parents etc. I come to find out last weekend that she got me something. She let me in on it because she knew that I would not like the 'surprise' on Christmas morning. I probably did not handle the situation as well as I could have mostly because I don't like the fact that we had a plan for over 6 weeks or so and at the last moment it gets changed and I need to scramble. The wife said that I don't need to reciprocate but I would feel awkward in knowing that I was going to get something and I did not have anything to give in return. Thoughts?
| plan a little get away for you two, even if its only for the day/evening. have a nice dinner out, get flowers, give her a massage and "treat her like a princess".
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| Shael
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| | | Re: Am I the Christmas Grinch < Reply # 5 on 12/22/2009 4:41 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Well, my particular situation... I spent a little too much getting something he really wanted and something I knew he'd love. Mostly because I really didn't do anything for his birthday and it's a part for the one thing that I know makes him truly happy. So, I bought it, fuck it. It's only money. He got a little bit upset when I told him what I bought. Mostly I told him because I don't want to get him something that he wouldn't really want. Also, I was kind of proud of myself because I found it and was able to get it without help, since it's something kind of esoteric. We didn't promise we wouldn't buy presents for each other and I know he can't really afford to spend the same as I did on me. I hope I got my point across that it's not what's in the box that matters to me, it's that he spent the time to go get it and that it's from him. Maybe I'm different from everyone else, but I get more out of giving a gift than I get out of getting one. Sure, it's nice, but that's not the way I was raised and that's not the way I live my life. I'm guessing that's the way she is too. She enjoys the idea of giving more than receiving. Get her flowers or something, whatever you can afford, I'm sure she'll love it just the same. I know I would. Shael
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