I'm half venting, half seeking opinions:
Last night I was using the boyfriends computer quickly and his email was open already (I swear on my life) and I found a conversation several replies long about mundane things (stereo set up, money owed), however interestingly enough he said that he sometimes missed her (the ex) and what they had, and she said it back.
Now I left his place at 2am in a huge storm and walked an hour to my place bar footed through the city, which didn't do much to curve my anger. Along the way a text message convo ensued:
I told him that he should have told me that he wasn't emotionally available, and that he really has no idea how much it hurts because I have been waiting to date him since I was 16 years old.
He replied that he is available to me, but he has a right to miss someone he lived with for a year, and that it doesn't matter because she lives 8 hours away and he'll never see her.
So I find several things fucked up about this:
1. I feel like I am filling in for someone.
2. So if she didn't live 8 hours away, or decided to move back I would probably be tossed to the fucking curb.
3. Not closing one door fully before opening another freaks the shit out of me. I don't miss any of my exes and I certainly wouldn't be telling them if I did.
4. I am not someone who you date half assed. I have high expectations and I am an amazing person and I can give someone the world, if I get what I need back.
He also said that he realises how great I am and loves my uniqueness, and that he's dating me for me. But I'm really not feelin' it after last night.
We're supposed to talk about everything tonight after he's done his volunteering shift. Not sure what to do. I love this twat greatly and want things to work more then anything, but my women spider-sense is telling me to run.
Thanks for listening.
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