There is you.
You have a boyfriend of over a year now.
You both understand eachother & how each of you react in given situations such as this.

The History:
Boyfriend is friends with a slut bartender in texas (we in florida) who facebooks all the time with insinuating pun posts leading her 600+ men / bar patrons to think she'll sleep with them.

Boyfriend KNOWS you do not like her already, she's going to get herself raped / killed by teasing all these boys. (not in that order for the necrophiliacs out there)

Boyfriend messages whore asking for naked pictures, when confronted he laughs & says its a joke. Then turns around and changes his password like he has something to hide.

Thoughts? Suggestions?



*Note, he has given me his password and told me to look anytime I wanted to. I have never looked until today.

backstory:
"nurse betty" posts on fb that she uploaded nude pics... then saw that she made a mistake and deleted them. 500 or so people chime in with ways to "see" them thru google and other such nonesence. in all reality, the nurse is an extrovert and very openminded about life. and no, shes not a slut by definition, shes a bitch.
did i send her a message? yes, did i ask for such pics? well yes- with the threat of shooting kittens (sent along with message)

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was a good laugh had by all parties in my message folder? well not by the one that was snooping, nurse and i had a good chuckle...
and that was the only pic that was sent btw. nurse betty and i have only known eachother for about 9 years. and besides, i have already seen her boobs on myspace...

What made you look today?

You need to have a long talk with your boyfriend about trust issues. Explain to him why this doesn't make you comfortable (try to avoid blaming the other woman, by the way, because it's not her fault your man asked her for pictures and you just come off as insecure).

Why the fuck don't you people talk to each other and avoid hashing this shit out in public?!

I forgot that you all were together until cdevon posted.

Turn away from the computer and turn to each other.

Easier said than done.

I will make sure next time I get laughed at in my face when I do try to talk to him, to never ask opinions on uer. Go ahead & lock and/or remove.

No no no. You misunderstood me. I don't care if you DO ask, I'm just wondering why you're not communicating directly with the person you live with, rather than passive aggressively communicating with them on an exploration website.

Christ.

Just speak to each other.

Or if you want to ask for anonymous advice on the internet, maybe try to do it in a place you aren't both members, because this is not the first time I have seen you two passive aggressively sniping at each other.

My only suggestion is communication, as clearly there's a ton of resentment building.

And there are plenty of advice forums out there, for both of you. Two explorers who are dating, occasionally airing their dirty business and bickering with each other on this board is just getting... weird. And clearly, seeing as things like this have cropped up between you two before, UER Relationships board isn't helping you hash any of this out.

Posted by SaraBellum No no no. You misunderstood me. I don't care if you DO ask, I'm just wondering why you're not communicating directly with the person you live with, rather than passive aggressively communicating with them on an exploration website.

+1

Posted by cdevon1200 +1

http://www.uer.ca/...d=1&threadid=82621

Don't act like you've never done it.