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| | | Re: Violation of trust...? < Reply # 31 on 5/10/2011 2:41 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by Intrinsic Sometimes though your inner voice is telling you something isn't right. For example, years back I was briefly dating this one woman who was always on the computer chatting. I was uncomfortable with this because she seemed to be fixated on this one guy. I initially did nothing, putting security before insecurity and trust before mistrust. As things progressed I finally decided to take a little peek at these chats and found that she met the guy once, made out with him while she was visiting down in Toronto and claimed to "miss him" despite it being a one-time meeting. All along she would deny that she was interested in this guy. Had I done nothing, I would have been blind to this whole situation and in the end probably been dumped. As it was, I told her to GTFO. It was just a short lived dating thing, nothing serious and given her lack of life skills, I think I'd have dumped her in the end anyway. She just expedited it.
| This part of my response is based solely on this /\ post. If your inner voice is telling you something is up, then it usually is. I've ignored that inner voice and it turned out badly. Sometimes blindly trusting something can bite you in the ass, and sometimes jumping on every insecurity can bite you in the ass. You just gotta pick which is right for you. I'm glad you checked into it. If someone is talking too much to someone who isn't their partner, there's trouble for sure. Overall though, you have to trust the person you are involved with otherwise you don't have a good relationship. Sometimes we see things we shouldn't, I know I have and I had to never ever bring it up (I actually saw a part of an x's diary once by accident). You have the choice then to tell the, or not, but either way you have to be ready for the knowledge to eat you up, or that they will be pissed and could never forgive you. It can be a toss up.
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