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Debi
Location: Worcester County, MA Gender: Female Total Likes: 23 likes
| | | Inlaws! < on 4/4/2011 3:18 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | My bf's mom had her house foreclosed on. And of course, instead of trying to find another place to go, she just dragged her feet - living in the house until the judge finally threw her out. She has 3 kids; a daughter who said she could go there, a son and his wife who said she could "eventually" go there if need be, and my bf and I. I am the only one who absolutely, without a doubt, don't want the woman in my house. But my bf is so unselfish and giving, and has been super-wonderful to me and any of my needs. And I feel somewhat selfish saying "NO FUCKING WAY", but at the same time figure that its my right to be able to be honest about how I feel. My home is the place where I go to be peaceful, and I don't want her around. I am sick of doing things that I don't want to do to keep other people happy; seems I'm doing that all the time. But this is just WAY too huge. In the past I have already taken care of my drug addict sister, sold my house to move in with my dad to care for him until he died, and then got custody of my sisters daughter and have been raising her for 7 years. I've pretty much done all I'm willing to do when it comes to "fixing" other peoples lives. We've tried finding her a place to live, but she turns her nose up at everything, or can't afford it, or doesn't like where it is, blah blah blah. And he keeps saying "But its my mother - what do you want me to do?" And I feel like complete shit when he says that. She has her "reasons" why she doesn't want to go with the others, and I don't even know why she wants to come to my house since we don't exactly have a warm relationship. She's the type that likes to take over, and we've already knocked heads over it. She once painted a room in my house the very color I told her NOT to paint it. She's also planted flowers in my yard in places I told her not too, because I was going to make a dog pen there. She just does what she wants. Guess I just need some outside opinions; because I'm not doing very well figuring this out on my own. THANKS
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