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metawaffle 

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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 40 on 5/18/2011 11:33 PM >
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she not claiming anything of mine, nor am i.


Just to push the lawyer point a bit further, it's not just division of assets you have to worry about, but things like acknowledgements that neither of you has or will encumber the other with debts or obligations. Remember that the lawyer drawing up the papers is obliged to look out for your wife's interests, not to be fair and impartial.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 41 on 5/23/2011 12:12 PM >
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she got the papers drawn up today. i am calling tomorrow to finalize them. she told me she wanted a divorce over text message.


probably a testament to the fact that she sucks. show that text in court and maybe she'll have to pay child support!!!!!!




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 42 on 5/23/2011 2:09 PM >
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probably a testament to the fact that she sucks. show that text in court and maybe she'll have to pay child support!!!!!!


That would be a pretty neat trick.

Maybe you could also get her to pay slave reparations!!!!!!!!!



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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 43 on 5/23/2011 7:00 PM >
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probably a testament to the fact that she sucks. show that text in court and maybe she'll have to pay child support!!!!!!



It would take way more than that to get custody, which you need to get child support. It is damn hard for a guy to get custody as it is.

But all of this is irrelevant considering she wasn't the child's mother.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 44 on 5/23/2011 7:35 PM >
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When I had my divorce, as wrong as my ex did me. I HATED it when people talked shit on her.

At one point he loved her, we should at leat be a little respectful of that.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 45 on 5/23/2011 11:42 PM >
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i did not read the whole thread.

BUT, AS I HAVE BEEN THRU THIS, TAKE A STAND, GET LEGAL HELP AND FIGHT. if she wants out, let her go, but keep ur shit. life happens at full speed and someday (soon) this will pass. its a bitch i know but "keep your unit on you" and be strong. use what ever ammo you have to make your case and win. it hurts to hurt the one you love but its important to win, she is doing the same man.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 46 on 5/24/2011 12:21 AM >
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i did not read the whole thread.



Maybe you should do that.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 47 on 5/24/2011 12:30 AM >
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So i have taken the advice and protected myself. Its going to be a quick clean break. I have my property and she gets hers. No money will be exchanging, and no alimony or bullshit like that. It still sucks really bad. But it gets better everyday.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 48 on 5/24/2011 1:15 AM >
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Good to hear!




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< Reply # 49 on 5/24/2011 1:19 AM >
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All i have to say, is that I am glad she is NOT the mother of your child.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 50 on 5/24/2011 1:25 AM >
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All i have to say, is that I am glad she is NOT the mother of your child.


Me too! She didn't even want anything to do with him after we were married. She would never play with him or take him outside. The last time we had him, she didn't change a single diaper. But whenever we were around her family, she was mother of the year.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 51 on 5/24/2011 3:45 AM >
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Me too! She didn't even want anything to do with him after we were married. She would never play with him or take him outside. The last time we had him, she didn't change a single diaper. But whenever we were around her family, she was mother of the year.


Ouch. Trust me on this, you want to find someone who can love your son as much as they love YOU. But of course, not someone who wants to step in and be mommy, since your son has one of those already. I'm still so sorry for your situation. Breakups are hard enough on their own, I can't imagine going through divorce.



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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 52 on 5/24/2011 3:16 PM >
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Me too! She didn't even want anything to do with him after we were married. She would never play with him or take him outside. The last time we had him, she didn't change a single diaper. But whenever we were around her family, she was mother of the year.


That's horrible...




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 53 on 5/25/2011 5:22 AM >
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I know how you feel. I was blindsided by my ex-wife wanting to get divorced too, coincidentally right after I got a great new job. Fortunately we didn't have to worry splitting property or money. I couldn't imagine having gone through that with kids, even if she's not the birth parent.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 54 on 6/2/2011 4:49 PM >
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Would it help in any way if I said that she's doing you a really, really huge favour?

Get a lawyer to a) protect your kid (trust me on this) and b) yourself and your assets.

Then tell her to get the fuck off your lawn.




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 55 on 6/2/2011 5:09 PM >
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Fight her for custody for the uer name 'Titties'




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Re: Divorce
< Reply # 56 on 6/6/2011 2:14 PM >
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I am not surprised or sympathic based on other threads.


Seriously?

You know, there's a lot of people I dislike on this forum, but I'd still never make a classless, chickenshit post like that if they had something genuinely awful happen to them in real life.

Congratulations, Tamara, you are an honest-to-God piece of crap.

And Monkey? You're better off and just be thankful you didn't knock her up.



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< Reply # 58 on 6/6/2011 4:10 PM >
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That would be a pretty neat trick.

Maybe you could also get her to pay slave reparations!!!!!!!!!






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< Reply # 59 on 6/6/2011 4:32 PM >
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Alright alright, here's what I ment by my comments. Sometimes I am too short and the true meaning doesn't get across.


I am sorry you invested time into her and turned out to be wrong about her being the one. I've been in simular situations and it sucks. However because you went along with various red flag type behaviour for so long, i had figured this divorce was more of a release. Sure she was hot and I'm sure you wanted to keep her forever so you went along with her bullshit (not treating your kids fantasically and lovingly all the time like kids should be treated, and allowing other people to openly hit on her or make passes at her like she was a piece of meat).

It's not your fault at all that she left you, and I hope you don't feel that way, but there were sure signs that you should have left before she did. In my not so humble opinion.

If I had known this thread would have been a pity train and not ex bashing, I wouldn't have posted at all because I don't like to be wordy.

I am sorry Monkey Punch.

And I realise now I lack the kleenex and empathy that is needed for the relationships board.




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