Posted by GotPaisley! Today is Seven years since my mom passed away! It's supposed to get easier but not for me. As each day passes I miss her more & more. I go to therapy & do all the things that I'm supposed to do. I did the bereavement classes & meetings. I just feel so lost & when she died so did a huge part of me! I don't know how to fix it!
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April will mark 22 years since my Dad died. I still miss him and no, it doesn't get easier. When he died, I too felt lost, betrayed and got to the point that I didn't care about anything anymore.
What has been a help to me are the good memories (shared jokes etc) with my Dad and I've learned there are certain things in life you can't change. Sadly, one of them is the fact that loved ones die and often before their time. Another thing that has helped is hanging on to my friends and family. When they suffered the loss of a parent, I was there for them and while my own pain didn't go away, helping them with theirs (sometimes as simple as lending a sympathetic ear and a shoulder to cry on), has helped me with mine.
I don't know what else to say to help but try to remember, you're not alone.