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< on 12/15/2004 7:48 AM >
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OK i have a question for all the guys....

What do men want from a woman?




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Re: Men
< Reply # 1 on 12/15/2004 9:12 AM >
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hmm, this is sort of a hard question to answer cause it depends on the guy...

First and foremost is a girl a guy can be friends with too, just being able to act the same way as they would around friends sometimes. This may sound weird but if it's ever happened to you you'll understand.

Guys also generally need a little most space than girls to do other things. Whether this be hanging out with the guys or whatever...

an awesome sense of humour is a plus

thats all I can really think of at the moment. It's 4:15 and the 'ol brain needs rest.





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< Reply # 2 on 12/15/2004 8:46 PM >
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I know that what I want from a female is to be appreciated for all I do. I don't mean material things necessarily, but when I go out of my way to do things for someone because I love them, I appreciate grateful responses. In my relationship now, I want mostly for her to talk to me. I know this isn't the typical male response to this kind of thing, but I like to know what is really going on in someone's head, how they feel about certain situations, and most of all how they feel about me. Also I think that I should get an even return on my relationship, getting while I give, because God knows I've given enough of my life and love to the girl I'm with right now.




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< Reply # 3 on 12/16/2004 11:00 AM >
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Sex.




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< Reply # 4 on 12/16/2004 8:03 PM >
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Sex.


That too.




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< Reply # 5 on 12/17/2004 11:45 AM >
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I can only speak for myself on this one:

Friendship: because you have to be there for each other

Common interests: otherwise it would be boring

Good sex: it's a part of live

getting along with her/his friends







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< Reply # 6 on 12/19/2004 12:01 PM >
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from a women......? hmmm
only 3 simple things
1 (common sense) this is the big one
2 (no ridiculous jealousy issues) quite related to common sense
3 (honesty)
and thats why i'm single right now
and I don't think women are all that different from guys, especially nowadays among younger generations and our emerging culture, society is becoming quite androgynous.. I think the issue is less man vs women more person vs person. I'm not trying to be politically correct or maybe I missed the whole point of this thread but yeah. thats my twisted opinion.




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< Reply # 7 on 12/19/2004 1:06 PM >
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Hate to admit, but the first thing that catches me is looks... however in no way is it a deciding point. The hottest big tittied babe could walk over to me and strike up a convo, but if shes an airhead or inconsiderate... good-bye.

If I have a great relationship with someone and she is intelligent, caring, thoughtful and enjoys or understands a couple of my interests... looks go right out the window cause what I'm interested in is personality.

The type of women I'm looking for, like me, don't come out of the cracks too often... so my search may go on for some time yet.




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< Reply # 8 on 12/20/2004 1:45 PM >
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Lets say things I DISLIKE from a girl:
that she tells me how I do things differently from her ex and keeps comparing me to him.
that she acts as if she was independant to make me jealous or such, when it only makes shit and problems.
that she tells me she's not yet sure she wants to have sex with me. Would you like me to tell you I'm not sure if I desire you?
that she always bring her friends around. Even if I truly enjoy them, it's the girl that I love, not her friends.
All of the above makes one hell of a shitty short-lasting relationship. (needed to get some things out ehe)



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< Reply # 9 on 1/1/2005 7:24 PM >
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I know that what I want from a female is to be appreciated for all I do. ...when I go out of my way to do things for someone because I love them, I appreciate grateful responses. (...) Also I think that I should get an even return on my relationship, getting while I give, because God knows I've given enough of my life and love to the girl I'm with right now.



I agree with Ascjeffry's opinion. The appreciation and love points are important. I want someone sharing the same COMMON INTERESTS and similar points in the walk of life (This is not too easy to find). She MUST HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON HER SHOULDERS, but being cute and good sex are always plus-values.




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< Reply # 10 on 1/16/2005 6:51 PM >
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Of course different guys want different things, but beyond the normal things everyone wants from everyone (e.g. open, honest, caring, funny, attractive) I think in general men want two seemingly self-exclusive things from women.

First, they want a woman to look and act female. By this I mean think of any characteristic that makes a woman look/act different than a male. On a platonic level this could be boobs, female clothes (like a skirt or dress), long hair, makeup. On another level this could be crossing their legs like a woman, they way they walk, they way they gesture, acting submissive.

But, at the same time, men want women to be men. They want the woman to act and be like a man but still retain the characteristics of a female (the above paragraph). For example, an attractive woman (boobs, long hair, wearing a dress) but doing something male, (using power tools, riding a motorcycle, staying up all night playing counter-strike, urban exploring ). Men will generally find this highly attractive.

This also extends to how a man wants the woman to be in a relationship. He wants her to be submissive-yet-aggressive; be as quick as him to get dressed up to go out somewhere, but still look feminine.

Of course my theory is a huge generalization and should be taken as such: not true in specific cases, but probably some-what true in some latent sense.




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< Reply # 11 on 1/17/2005 5:09 AM >
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Honesty. We can work from there.




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< Reply # 12 on 1/18/2005 2:04 AM >
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Someone to buy D cell batteries with =)






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< Reply # 13 on 2/5/2005 7:26 AM >
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I WANT YOU BABY!!!!!!




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< Reply # 14 on 2/5/2005 7:36 AM >
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I don't know about other men, but for me, I want a woman who is intelligent, sweet, caring, loveable, strong willed, and loves affection. Someone who knows what she wants and isn't afraid of getting it. A woman who is her own person, who can think for herself and make her own decisions. I desire a lady who will be my closest friend, companion and lover. Someone who enjoys spending time together and learning about one another. A lady who enjoys laughing and doesn't mind being silly with me, who can hold an intelligent conversation and will surprise me at any moment with a kiss that makes my head spin. I want a woman who will support my decisions but tell me if I am making bad ones. An equal is all I desire, someone who is the opposite of myself and my other half.




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violence. i like a girl who'll punch me in the face and fully expect(and want) to get one back.




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< Reply # 16 on 4/8/2005 8:42 PM >
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i know what i want from my women

sex thats it, when i want it, and then i am happy and
right now im truly happy cause that how i got it right now.

oh how i love my women




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< Reply # 17 on 4/8/2005 8:54 PM >
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i know what i want from my women

sex thats it, when i want it, and then i am happy and
right now im truly happy cause that how i got it right now.

oh how i love my women


Yep... its definetely no wonder why they call us pigs.




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< Reply # 18 on 4/8/2005 9:57 PM >
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Women want/like sex just as much as men.




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< Reply # 19 on 3/12/2006 6:48 AM >
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Women want/like sex just as much as men.


women are far far worse then any guy.. they just hide it better.. beside it's not hard for a woman to get it no matter what, and they know this..




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