What do I want from women? In a way it seems like "not much," but at the same time, a lot of it seems pretty hard to find. Many of the things I would like about a woman are the same or very similar to the things that I like about the men who are my friends. Here are some of the more important ones:


"Core" Values/Traits:

-Honesty
-Kindness (overall; obviously no-one is nice all the time)
-Willingness and ability to communicate with me
-A certain amount of common sense when it comes to everyday life
-An open mind, being willing to consider the ideas of others, and being willing to put forth her own ideas about things


Other:

-I am something of a homebody; that is to say, I enjoy staying at home (or other similarly comfortable locations) and talking (and listening;)) as a means of entertainment. This is certainly not to say that I never like to leave the house, but it is likely that I would not be very compatible with a woman who absolutely dislikes sitting around and talking from time to time.

-I find myself interested in all kinds of things that happen and that I see in the world around us, from the most mundane to the blatantly spectacular. I like to think about, talk about, and speculate about things with people. I tend to enjoy the company of others who also enjoy doing this. Now, there are certain things that I am interested in, that almost everyone else would find very boring. That's perfectly fine with me, and I know not to ramble on about such things if the person or people I'm with aren't interested in them. But, in the long run, I tend to enjoy the company of people who have a certain amount of natural curiosity in them much more than that of people who don't. To me, this is an even bigger deal with women, since one typically hopes to spend a lot of time with one's girlfriend/spouse.

OK, all this speculation about what I want in women is making me lonely, so I think I'll wrap this up .


-DrDeke

I'm looking for someone who is sincere, kind, caring, assertive, affectionate, loves to laugh, loves animals, loves being outdoors, family oriented...that's all I can think of right now but that pretty much covers it. I could add a few physical traits I'm specifically interested in but that might disqualify a good person who might make a great partner so I keep those thoughts to myself.

Posted by CowboyPenner I'm looking for someone who is sincere, kind, caring, assertive, affectionate, loves to laugh, loves animals, loves being outdoors, family oriented...that's all I can think of right now but that pretty much covers it. I could add a few physical traits I'm specifically interested in but that might disqualify a good person who might make a great partner so I keep those thoughts to myself.

and.... sex

You know I know a guy who is perfect for me in ALMOST everyway...

but...

he has a 2 inch penis. I'm not joking or making fun of him... but I just can't live with that.... I don't really like oral all that much.

sex is important... and attraction.

Posted by Senseriffic You know I know a guy who is perfect for me in ALMOST everyway... but... he has a 2 inch penis. I'm not joking or making fun of him... but I just can't live with that.... I don't really like oral all that much. sex is important... and attraction.

. . . wow . . .

I think it is funny how many people said honesty. Honesty...True honesty is very hard to deal with. In our society we are taught to stuff a lot of our true desires because of a puritanical moralism that we all unknowingly agree to. For example, let's say your partner tells you that they want to fuck someone else. How would you honestly feel about that? And Why? If all the people you have been with in the past were completely honest you'd all shit yourselves.

Oh, and Senseriffic. First, So your partner has a small cock, Just imagine the opposite. Imagine tearing every time you have sex. Imagine having the feeling of multiple paper cuts inside your vagina. No fun, no fun at all. Besides a small cock is good for G-spot stimulation, You just need to teach him how to use it right.

Second...Nobody is going to be perfect for you, That's your job and yours alone.
Other people are to fucked up to rely on.

And to comment on the topic at hand(no pun intended).

There is no one thing that a man wants. To make sweeping generalizations is counterproductive. If you are having problems with your relationships you need to look inward to see why you are drawing certain types of losers to you. And if you just want to know what men want to be able to attract one. Be yourself, don't try and force things, and And don't think about it. Do your own thing. Ever notice that you find what you are looking for when you stop looking for it.

Posted by dirt I think it is funny how many people said honesty. Honesty...True honesty is very hard to deal with. In our society we are taught to stuff a lot of our true desires because of a puritanical moralism that we all unknowingly agree to. For example, let's say your partner tells you that they want to fuck someone else. How would you honestly feel about that? And Why? If all the people you have been with in the past were completely honest you'd all shit yourselves.

My last GF and I were COMPLETELY honest with each other, and I must say I preferred it. No matter how awful something she told me was, I still was happier knowing than being in the dark. And I was always able to deal with it and we'd work through it. She on the other hand, didn't react as well to me being honest. There were a few things that caused her to just go completely off of the deep end when she found out about them.

Posted by Brind My last GF and I were COMPLETELY honest with each other, and I must say I preferred it. No matter how awful something she told me was, I still was happier knowing than being in the dark. And I was always able to deal with it and we'd work through it. She on the other hand, didn't react as well to me being honest. There were a few things that caused her to just go completely off of the deep end when she found out about them.

I applaud your effort. Truly. I know from experience how difficult it can be. That is the coarse my partner and I are taking. The best of luck and I hope you stay on that track.

Posted by tigerlily OK i have a question for all the guys.... What do men want from a woman?

Can you let me have half an hour of peace and quiet every now and then without making me fell like I've just asked for a fucking divorce? Can you do that for me...? Thanks.

Posted by KublaKhan Can you let me have half an hour of peace and quiet every now and then without making me fell like I've just asked for a fucking divorce? Can you do that for me...? Thanks.

And common sense. Here...have $250...take a night school course in logic and rational thinking. Do it. Do it now.

Posted by dirt I think it is funny how many people said honesty. Honesty...True honesty is very hard to deal with. In our society we are taught to stuff a lot of our true desires because of a puritanical moralism that we all unknowingly agree to. For example, let's say your partner tells you that they want to fuck someone else. How would you honestly feel about that? And Why? If all the people you have been with in the past were completely honest you'd all shit yourselves.

I would much rather have my hypothetical partner tell me she wanted to fuck someone else than to go do it without telling me...

I know that people are never completely honest, but I like a much higher degree of honesty in my personal relationships than most people seem to.

1. They have to smart enough to have a conversation with
2. Common interests; for example I wouldn't get along with someone who thinks photography, bird watching, and the great outdoors all suck
3. A good sense of humour is important
4. Doesn't ask far too much of the guy
5. Looks are an important thing as well

That's just my opinion.

Posted by Blackbird 1. They have to smart enough to have a conversation with 2. Common interests; for example I wouldn't get along with someone who thinks photography, bird watching, and the great outdoors all suck 3. A good sense of humour is important 4. Doesn't ask far too much of the guy 5. Looks are an important thing as well That's just my opinion.

You forgot the mention the blow-job-in-the-morning thing.

Posted by KublaKhan You forgot the mention the blow-job-in-the-morning thing.

Hahaha, that's funny because.................. never mind

no keep going

Posted by btween/chas violence. i like a girl who'll punch me in the face and fully expect(and want) to get one back.

Masochist?

All any man really wants is cold beer, warm pu$$y, and a place to take a shit with a door on it.

Posted by maypost All any man really wants is cold beer, warm pu$$y, and a place to take a shit with a door on it.

And there you have it; the simple truth!

I'm flexible on the beer and the door.

Posted by White Rabbit I'm flexible on the beer and the door.

I mean you don't want the dog looking at you.