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Emma Peel
Location: Ahowah Gender: Female Total Likes: 4 likes
Ghosting you like you've never been ghosted before.
| | | Re: halloween < Reply # 22 on 11/2/2008 7:14 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Wow... I'd like to take this moment to say that I have NEVER thought of or referred to myself as "sexy." It is a word that for various reasons has always made me feel revolted. However, I also work hard to take care of my body and know that I am at least somewhat attractive. I also will freely admit that I call it "Whorelaween" because of the extent that some people will go to be the type of people you're all talking about. I wore my "Whorelaween" costume damn proudly and I walked around with the SAME confidance that I ALWAYS carry myself with. Yep, my costume was pretty slutty (even so, you guys have to admit that my make-up was fucking awesome). But that is as far as it goes: I have pretty high standards for men, and will "date" them usually for about two weeks, and in that two weeks, they're lucky to get so much as a peck on the cheek from me. Generally, I end up finding something wrong with them (legitimately) and stop wasting my time. The last time I had sex (or even came close to anything related to sex) was more than a few months ago. I hate stereotypical frat boys. With a passion. I drink VERY rarely, and only in safe places -- NOT bars, and not Halloween parties. I play roller derby, I've taken self-defense and martial arts classes, and I'm in good physical condition. I'm confidant that if someone were to attempt to assault me as I am today, I could probably give them a fucking good run for their money. And just because I LOOKED "slutty," doesn't mean that I would be gets used for her body and all her life or beaten and raped in a dark ally then turning trick for crack! |
Fucking WOW. I can't even express the anger that I feel at that statement. The ignorance you show by generalizing something like that -- NOT about Halloween, but women in general. Those are all serious issues and newsflash: It isn't always because the girl is wearing a short skirt. I could be walking around in front of a room full of men, NAKED, dancing around in front of them and NONE OF THEM would EVER have the right to rape me! And if they did rape me? It would be THEIR fault. Sure I'd have been acting pretty promiscuously, but nobody ASKS to be raped: It isn't possible. If you "ask" to be raped, you're therefore consenting to sex, in which case, it isn't rape. And just for your information, I'm a trained rape/sexual assault/domestic violence legal advocate, and (for my psychology degree) I've researched probably a large majority of published studies about how predators choose their victims. You wanna know who gets picked first? Nope, it isn't the provocatively-dressed girl. You know why? Because the SKANKY GIRL is obnoxiously loud, somewhat confidant, and would probably not go down without a fight. No, the quiet, CONSERVATIVELY-DRESSED women are the ones who get chosen first. Even better is the girl who doesn't fidget: Sitting still is a sign of past successful victimization. No, I'm not telling you that dressing like a slut will keep you from getting raped, because it does invite the wrong kind of attention. However, my POINT is you're making uneducated generalizations about the repercussions that dressing up for Whorelaween actually has. Just... don't judge a book by its cover. /end rant.
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| Sorry, I probably forgot my <sarcasm> tags. |
| logtec
Location: Logtec is the UER representative for Scarborough, Ontario. Gender: Male Total Likes: 11 likes
Nice head, what's in the bag?
| | | | Re: halloween < Reply # 23 on 11/2/2008 7:51 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by Emma Peel Wow... I'd like to take this moment to say that I have NEVER thought of or referred to myself as "sexy." It is a word that for various reasons has always made me feel revolted. However, I also work hard to take care of my body and know that I am at least somewhat attractive. I also will freely admit that I call it "Whorelaween" because of the extent that some people will go to be the type of people you're all talking about. I wore my "Whorelaween" costume damn proudly and I walked around with the SAME confidance that I ALWAYS carry myself with. Yep, my costume was pretty slutty (even so, you guys have to admit that my make-up was fucking awesome). But that is as far as it goes: I have pretty high standards for men, and will "date" them usually for about two weeks, and in that two weeks, they're lucky to get so much as a peck on the cheek from me. Generally, I end up finding something wrong with them (legitimately) and stop wasting my time. The last time I had sex (or even came close to anything related to sex) was more than a few months ago. I hate stereotypical frat boys. With a passion. I drink VERY rarely, and only in safe places -- NOT bars, and not Halloween parties. I play roller derby, I've taken self-defense and martial arts classes, and I'm in good physical condition. I'm confidant that if someone were to attempt to assault me as I am today, I could probably give them a fucking good run for their money. And just because I LOOKED "slutty," doesn't mean that I would be Fucking WOW. I can't even express the anger that I feel at that statement. The ignorance you show by generalizing something like that -- NOT about Halloween, but women in general. Those are all serious issues and newsflash: It isn't always because the girl is wearing a short skirt. I could be walking around in front of a room full of men, NAKED, dancing around in front of them and NONE OF THEM would EVER have the right to rape me! And if they did rape me? It would be THEIR fault. Sure I'd have been acting pretty promiscuously, but nobody ASKS to be raped: It isn't possible. If you "ask" to be raped, you're therefore consenting to sex, in which case, it isn't rape. And just for your information, I'm a trained rape/sexual assault/domestic violence legal advocate, and (for my psychology degree) I've researched probably a large majority of published studies about how predators choose their victims. You wanna know who gets picked first? Nope, it isn't the provocatively-dressed girl. You know why? Because the SKANKY GIRL is obnoxiously loud, somewhat confidant, and would probably not go down without a fight. No, the quiet, CONSERVATIVELY-DRESSED women are the ones who get chosen first. Even better is the girl who doesn't fidget: Sitting still is a sign of past successful victimization. No, I'm not telling you that dressing like a slut will keep you from getting raped, because it does invite the wrong kind of attention. However, my POINT is you're making uneducated generalizations about the repercussions that dressing up for Whorelaween actually has.
Just... don't judge a book by its cover. /end rant.
| humm i see your point, i didn't mean to generalize anyone. my point about beauty got out of hand. what i should have said is in this day and age and the media influence population, "most" people judge other people by what they look like. (think about movie stars, theres way more skiny/ripped/buff people then bigger/fat/out-of-shape/ugly stars. tv shows like "top model"-"you think you can dance/sing"-"reality shows" its mostly the prettiest or well chiseled people picked "to be seen on tv". magazines mostly use only the most "beautiful" or "skiny" people to sell there crap. what about the rest of us?)
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| They say "you can't judge a book by its cover!" I say "YES you can, if the cover has a girl on it with a cock in her mouth, its PORN!" if she's 18 and the cock is black, its GREAT porn! |
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