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Shael
Location: Witherbee, NY. Gender: Female Total Likes: 7 likes
Baaaaah.
| | | Re: So now what? < Reply # 4 on 4/12/2010 4:59 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Bandi, now you know how I feel. I've been floating around since January like this. Sam just wants to be close friends, I promised him I wouldn't say much on here, but I've been floating around aimlessly, lost since after the first of the year. I'm sure anybody that's talked to me probably knows this by now. I'm still pretty broken hearted and I can't move forward, at least not now. I mean, we still go out to dinner and other stuff, but it's not the same. He just doesn't understand how much I've been hurt and why I get upset after seeing him sometimes. I know, most people will say just break it off and cut it off for good, but I'm not that kind of person. All I really can say is he's a selfish son of a bitch that didn't and doesn't really care about my feelings in all of this and I hate him for it, but he's such a big part of me that I can't seem to let go of and I can't stay mad at him for more than ten minutes. I never could. But yeah, I understand how you feel. I'm lonely myself and I miss him. I'm sure you wonder how and why I do, but when someone is such a big part of you for 3 years and one day that just disappears, you're not the same. Shael
| "The best wine lies at the bottom of the pail/And Happiness lies below the navel." - Drukpa Kunley, "The Divine Madman of the Dragon Lineage" and "Saint of 5,000 Women". |
| olive
Location: hamilton Gender: Female Total Likes: 1 like
good plan, poorly executed.
| | | | Re: So now what? < Reply # 8 on 4/12/2010 9:53 PM > | Reply with Quote
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| Sorry, what was that you were saying about forever alone? |
| steponmebbbboom
Total Likes: 0 likes
*NSFW*
| | | Re: So now what? < Reply # 12 on 4/13/2010 5:50 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | oh dude you spend any serious time on there youre going to think all girls are like that and there's no hope left. POF is a clearinghouse for mentally ill and BDSM types who can't have normal relationships. No one with a clear and healthy perspective lasts for more than a few weeks on that site. I didn't, friends of mine didn't, but there's a whole ream of gorgeous girls who have been on that site for YEARS and are still making men miserable. If you go on the forums you can find their join dates, it's a real eye opener. I sympathise with the mentally ill, but not when im on a date. There is an alarming number of borderlines (BPD) on that site and ive met a few, google that one if youre not familiar. You simply cannot get close to a borderline without getting hurt. Dont do it, make real friends and go to real social gatherings you have a much higher chance of finding someone who knows how to cultivate a long-lasting relationship with you. If you can get rid of someone with no more than a mouseclick youre not going to worry about nonexistent social consequences for your actions, thats why so many unhealthy people use POF for dating. They already scared all their neighbours and friends away! Youre not going to crap all over someone if he/she shares like 90% of your friends because now, consequences matter. So wait til youre ready, make friends, date friends of friends and treat them right.
| Mentos... The Freshmaker |
| Yield
Location: Look behind you Gender: Male Total Likes: 15 likes
I'd do you for a klondike bar
| | | Re: So now what? < Reply # 15 on 4/13/2010 7:33 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by steponmebbbboom oh dude you spend any serious time on there youre going to think all girls are like that and there's no hope left. POF is a clearinghouse for mentally ill and BDSM types who can't have normal relationships. No one with a clear and healthy perspective lasts for more than a few weeks on that site. I didn't, friends of mine didn't, but there's a whole ream of gorgeous girls who have been on that site for YEARS and are still making men miserable. If you go on the forums you can find their join dates, it's a real eye opener. I sympathise with the mentally ill, but not when im on a date. There is an alarming number of borderlines (BPD) on that site and ive met a few, google that one if youre not familiar. You simply cannot get close to a borderline without getting hurt. Dont do it, make real friends and go to real social gatherings you have a much higher chance of finding someone who knows how to cultivate a long-lasting relationship with you. If you can get rid of someone with no more than a mouseclick youre not going to worry about nonexistent social consequences for your actions, thats why so many unhealthy people use POF for dating. They already scared all their neighbours and friends away! Youre not going to crap all over someone if he/she shares like 90% of your friends because now, consequences matter. So wait til youre ready, make friends, date friends of friends and treat them right.
| :'( Josh and I met on there and we're getting married....
| Yield's Peer Review: ~Doesn't give a fuck, total badass, and one of my ue-besties. ~Genuine, has positive character and this thing called integrity. Knows when to be serious. Passionate about productive things. Human being. ~fish fish boxing boxing bestest friend evah |
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