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SaraBellum Berkshire Hunt
Location: Villa Villekulla Gender: Female Total Likes: 16 likes
Coming to a cinema near you this summer.
| | | | Re: What do women want? < Reply # 42 on 2/24/2011 4:52 AM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by piplnr65656 "This is seriously what us women deal with."
| I have a lot of problems with this article. 1. People are living a lot longer, and women are holding off on having babies until they're in their mid 30s. Being 23 and still fucking around isn't that bad. 2. I'm married, but I have no children. Does this mean I'm still a "pre-adult"? Or am I a "post-pre-adult" because I've met one of their requirements for being an "adult"? Will I be a seventy year old "pre-adult" because I chose not to fuck up my entire life by introducing a child into it? Or are sociologists going to make up new bullshit buzzwords to call us? 3. There wasn't any input from guys on WHY they have no motivation to get married and have kids and "settle down". Maybe because not settling down is fun as hell. Or, maybe they try to get dates with secretaries, girls who work at Old Navy, or paralegals; and they're blown off because those women are waiting for a doctor or lawyer to sweep them off their feet and take them to the land of mommy-blogging and coupon clipping? 4. The entire article (from the Wall Street Journal, so I shouldn't be surprised), seems to enforce a lifestyle that I won't ever fit into, and neither would a lot of people. 5. Being an adult means one can eat ice cream with kahluha for breakfast, then call out "sick" from work and go to the park. Assigning anything more meaningful than that is doing a disservice to our personal freedoms. TL;DR: Yay, ice cream!
| [01:47:56] <GreyDeath> Sara just stares her enemies into submission and eventually madness "You can either be wise or a bad-ass gangsta, but not both. You must choose your path." ~~metawaffle |
| Gringo Loco
Location: Kansas City, MO Gender: Male Total Likes: 10 likes
| | | | | | Re: What do women want? < Reply # 50 on 2/24/2011 7:03 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | So in summary their idea of success is a man who goes to school and gets a well paying job. Then finds a wife, settles down to have kids and lives in a house in the suburbs. All by age 27. Seriously, who wrote this article, Mrs. Cleaver? Wasn't the 50's over half a century ago? I think basically though the point is there seems to be a lot of slackers out there. I would admit I am to degree. Everyone is. Like they brought up, it is a labyrinth you have to go through to get a good job. Even then, it's no guarantee that the investment will pay off. For the time being, I'm happy with my mediocre job and the fun I have with my time off. If you don't like drinking on a 9 story rooftop at night in the city, you're just a square. I think there are two lifestyles you can boil down to. Raise a family, or play your whole life. Everyone is different and are going to find one more fulfilling than the other. Which makes me think of the ones who mix the both, and end up screwing their kids up.
| "TubGirl is hot." I want to be addressed as Sir Gringo DeathTruck the First. |
| Esoterik
Location: Kansas City Gender: Male Total Likes: 122 likes
| | | Re: What do women want? < Reply # 56 on 2/25/2011 1:39 PM > | Reply with Quote
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| “You've got to remember that these are just simple farmers. These are people of the land. The common clay of the new West. You know... morons.” |
| Yield
Location: Look behind you Gender: Male Total Likes: 15 likes
I'd do you for a klondike bar
| | | Re: What do women want? < Reply # 58 on 2/25/2011 6:33 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by compaq12986
whats wrong with women wanting to have children? Life can be pretty fullfilling with an Significant other. No ones saying they want you to stifle it and get them a beer and a sandwhich. thats not what having a families about. hahaha, i get it your one of the people who think its trendy to be all hurrr hurr hurr im a female im independent. In this day in age thats a lame thing. you can be a black midget with downs and a felony record and still pound out a living. you have no more disadvantages being a women in the work force than anyone else. having children and a family isn't something that should be looked down upon.
| her main point was actually the view of the article, which was (in layman's terms, so even you can understand) that women want a successful, 'set' young man (early 20's) who is ready to settle down and start building a family. She's not saying having a family is bad. She also never stated that she has any disregard for those women who do choose to be homemakers. I think what she's trying to get at is that women and men are supposed to be considered equal in all respects nowadays (as you said), and it's making women's progress on the social recognition scale seem trivial and pointless to state we still want the average lifestyle of a woman from 1950. A lot of women now prioritize finishing school, finding a suitable career, establishing a bonding relationship with their mate, and ensuring they've reached fulfillment in their 'single' lives before moving on and building a family. Exactly the same as these men, which the article states are 'not good' do. It's not that she's being an extremist feminist here as it is the article is paradoxically slandering women who are the mirror image of the men it is about as well as anybody who has the views that this lifestyle and behavior is acceptable. TL;DR the article is just ridiculous and she was stating so. Also, regardless of ones relationship status, one can still be an independent female or male and I believe all people should be more independent and less codependent. I personally became so and feel better prepared for my future because of it. So saying independence is trendy clearly states the kind of person you are - I'm going to guess you so dislike the strong female because inside, you are a weak codependent person who would really love nothing more than a mate who feels they NEED you at all times, as you need them, because you are insecure and afraid of abandonment. I mean, I could be way off the mark, it's not like I have a degree or anything. Maybe you're just stupid and/or like to argue a lot.
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