Posted by Tamara Alright alright, here's what I ment by my comments. Sometimes I am too short and the true meaning doesn't get across. I am sorry you invested time into her and turned out to be wrong about her being the one. I've been in simular situations and it sucks. However because you went along with various red flag type behaviour for so long, i had figured this divorce was more of a release. Sure she was hot...

Me too. But when we were dating she was amazing. Perhaps the best girlfriend I have ever had. Things changed when we got married. In retrospect this divorce is a blessing, but it is still a divorce, and never the less still not what I wanted. Also I didn't marry her for her looks.

Posted by Tamara and I'm sure you wanted to keep her forever so you went along with her bullshit (not treating your kids fantasically and lovingly all the time like kids should be treated,

When you get married, you are kinda hoping it last forever. She was never mean or abusive to my son. I just did everything when we were both around him. When she was alone with him, she would do stuff with him and take care of him. Don't you EVER assume or think i would tolerate someone doing anything bad to my son. My son is my life. He is the most important person in my life.

Posted by Tamara and allowing other people to openly hit on her or make passes at her like she was a piece of meat).

I can't stop people from hitting on her or anyone else. Perhaps you are not that attractive and you don't understand several people checking you out and hitting on you. But since she is an attractive person, people will check her out and hit on her until she gets ugly or fat or both, I can't control what other people do. All I could do is just hope she didn't let it go too far.

Posted by Tamara It's not your fault at all that she left you, and I hope you don't feel that way, but there were sure signs that you should have left before she did. In my not so humble opinion.

I know its not my fault. It still sucks horribly to be in a situation where you feel used and lied to. I'm sure there were signs, hindsight is 20/20 after all.

Posted by Tamara If I had known this thread would have been a pity train and not ex bashing, I wouldn't have posted at all because I don't like to be wordy. I am sorry Monkey Punch. And I realise now I lack the kleenex and empathy that is needed for the relationships board.

It hasn't been a pity train. Its just people expressing their genuine sorrow and heartfelt apologies for someone who is a member of this community going through something shitty. I am honestly not sure how to take any of your "apologies" or "sympathy" because it just feels to me that you are being a patronizing bitch. If I am wrong, then I am truly sorry.

Sorry you're going through this crap,M. I've never been married but I've been through an exceptionally shitty breakup,no fun.



*slowly backs away from the thread*

ah man, that sucks...

you seem like a stand up dude though not shooting her in the face with a potato gun.

But that is fucking low... a text message? really? WTF was she so busy doing that she couldn't tell you in person... man, any other way would be a step up from that level of shallowness.

I dont want to downtalk her, but that is total cunt behavior.




This is the second thing she's done that disappointed me. the first was when she didn't deliver in her thread she made... what a rip off... and all she had left was her integrity which we now find out is worth even less.

lololol okay, now im just plain tired of being misunderstood and this thread.

They see me trolling, they haten'.

So I got all of my stuff. The only thing left is the court case. The papers we signed made the divorce legal. Within two months it will all be over with and never have to worry about any more of this.

Posted by MonkeyPunchBaby So I got all of my stuff. The only thing left is the court case. The papers we signed made the divorce legal. Within two months it will all be over with and never have to worry about any more of this.

I wonder if you realize how lucky you are to go through such a quick divorce. My dad is dragging out my parents one..still. Like, years later. *sigh* So good for you two for just throwing it under the bus and getting it done with.

Posted by Yield I wonder if you realize how lucky you are to go through such a quick divorce. My dad is dragging out my parents one..still. Like, years later. *sigh* So good for you two for just throwing it under the bus and getting it done with.

I am so happy that this is a quick one. I am thankfully everyday that she is not pulling any sort of bullshit(aside from the divorce).

Posted by MonkeyPunchBaby I am so happy that this is a quick one. I am thankfully everyday that she is not pulling any sort of bullshit(hopefully).

altered.




side note... my sympathy goes out to you for not getting to hit that anymore. Also that she turned out not being one of the good ones.

Posted by mewthree altered. side note... my sympathy goes out to you for not getting to hit that anymore. Also that she turned out not being one of the good ones.

Thanks. I always seem to have the habit of being with really horrible people. I just wanna meet a nice woman who doesn't get creeped out when I say, "hey wanna go into that abandoned building?"

Annnnd just for the record, I'd go into an abandoned building with you anytime!

Annnnd just for the record, I'd go into an abandoned building with you anytime!

I like where this is going

Posted by Crypton I like where this is going

So does Monkey, trust me *wicked grins

Posted by Twisted Orchid So does Monkey, trust me *wicked grins

Word. If only you weren't married!!! Haha

Posted by MonkeyPunchBaby Word. If only you weren't married!!! Haha

If only

Damn it!!

Maybe this is the solution for you all?

http://www.uer.ca/...d=1&threadid=91112

Posted by Esoterik Maybe this is the solution for you all? http://www.uer.ca/...d=1&threadid=91112

LOL No thanks, we're just having fun, kidding around

Sorry to hear about your situation.

My ex-wife told me to GTFO via e-mail, so I can understand where your mind must be (or must've been) when you got that txt message.

On my end, I stayed away for several weeks, came home, and we had a long sit down and deceided it was time to call it quits. She moved out like 4 months later. Sadly, we're both lazy and neither have us have filed for divorce/disolution. Oh well. I've got the paperwork, just need to fill it out, get her to fill it out, then send it in.

Actually I could write a fucking book about the thoughts in my head surrounding my relationship with my ex, from the moment we met to today. Ugh.