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Esoterik
Location: Kansas City Gender: Male Total Likes: 122 likes
| | | facebook question < on 9/10/2011 4:02 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | So my gf dumped me last week, said she was too soon from her divorce to be exclusive with someone and wanted to date other people. I didn't, so that ended it. She broke up with me. She initiated the "in a relationship" status on fb, and it's still there. I want finality, so I can get on with the process of healing over this, it will take a few weeks to take the edge off the sting. But I keep checking fb, hoping she would just change it back to single and then defriend me, or something.... My first thought was not giving her validation by changing the status first, and making her do it, since she initiated it (she initiated everything, from meeting the kids to introducing me to parents and friends, everything. Really took me for a ride). But I keep coming back to look at my fb, hoping it will finally be changed. But it's not, keeps going. 4 days now since the breakup. Then thought start creeping in "maybe she still loves me and does not want this final..." But that's BS and I know it. If anything she has been too busy or wants to spare my feelings. Should I just do it and be done???
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| Shael
Location: Witherbee, NY. Gender: Female Total Likes: 7 likes
Baaaaah.
| | | Re: facebook question < Reply # 1 on 9/10/2011 4:15 PM > | Reply with Quote
| | | Posted by Esoterik So my gf dumped me last week, said she was too soon from her divorce to be exclusive with someone and wanted to date other people. I didn't, so that ended it. She broke up with me. She initiated the "in a relationship" status on fb, and it's still there. I want finality, so I can get on with the process of healing over this, it will take a few weeks to take the edge off the sting. But I keep checking fb, hoping she would just change it back to single and then defriend me, or something.... My first thought was not giving her validation by changing the status first, and making her do it, since she initiated it (she initiated everything, from meeting the kids to introducing me to parents and friends, everything. Really took me for a ride). But I keep coming back to look at my fb, hoping it will finally be changed. But it's not, keeps going. 4 days now since the breakup. Then thought start creeping in "maybe she still loves me and does not want this final..." But that's BS and I know it. If anything she has been too busy or wants to spare my feelings. Should I just do it and be done???
| Yes...do it and be done. Defriend her. I had a one night fling sort of thing when Sam and I were apart...the best thing said fling dude could have done is defriend me. I was pissed off when he did it, sure, but I was glad he did it.
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