Ok this seems to be a huge issue in my house. We have been together for over 20 years. Married but not the best relationship, we have had our share of issues. One of the big bitches of his is frequency. I work nights he works days. I try to make sure he has sex atleast once a week but more often than not he gets it more. I hear geez you didn't wake me up last night. He tries to tell me his buddies who have been married for 10+ years still get it 5 or 6 times a week. God is that the norm or is he just feeding me a line of shit?

Posted by shellyl God is that the norm or is he just feeding me a line of shit?

He's feeding you shit. Either that or he's stupid enough to believe his buddies, cause they ain't gettin' it 5 or 6 times a week.

But once a week is kinda harsh.

Posted by White Rabbit He's feeding you shit. Either that or he's stupid enough to believe his buddies, cause they ain't gettin' it 5 or 6 times a week. But once a week is kinda harsh.

Ditto.

After working all day, more often than not, there's only enough energy to kiss each other good night.

But then, his buddies could be talking about "Manual Override".

Hmm,I've been with mine for three years. We average at least once a day,every day (when physically possible). I don't know where he gets the energy sometimes,but he does,though I'd certainly say it's NOT within the norm.

With both of you working different shifts and having different sleep times,it doesn't seem all that fair that your husband's acting deprived,in my humble opinion. I have friends who go for months without having sex with their partners.

Posted by Wiccan With both of you working different shifts and having different sleep times,it doesn't seem all that fair that your husband's acting deprived,in my humble opinion.

I disagree! Once a week (when he wants more) is simply cruel. It's not like she has to do any work anyway.

Hear that shellyl? Lay there and take your medicine, bitch!

Posted by White Rabbit I disagree! Once a week (when he wants more) is simply cruel. It's not like she has to do any work anyway. Hear that shellyl? Lay there and take your medicine, bitch!

I knew I could count on you WR, with you it would be a different story . It's not like I say no, I just don't initiate it more than once or twice a week.

Posted by shellyl It's not like I say no, I just don't initiate it more than once or twice a week.

Say what? Why isn't he initiating it? He's married. It's not like he needs your permission. Just catch her in the kitchen, pull her panties aside, and shove it in there.

what's sex?

This:
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HAHAHA... he's givin' er!

Posted by shellyl Ok this seems to be a huge issue in my house. We have been together for over 20 years. Married but not the best relationship, we have had our share of issues. One of the big bitches of his is frequency. I work nights he works days. I try to make sure he has sex atleast once a week but more often than not he gets it more. I hear geez you didn't wake me up last night. He tries to tell me his buddies who have been married for 10+ years still get it 5 or 6 times a week. God is that the norm or is he just feeding me a line of shit?

As often as you feel you want to. If he wants more tell him to fuck a cantaloupe.

3-4 times a week is norm well it is for me, been in the relationship for 5 years, and dont really talk to my mates about it that much...

Once every 7 months seems to be the norm for me this year... which really sucks after dating a total nympho.

Posted by bandi Once every 7 months seems to be the norm for me this year... which really sucks after dating a total nympho.

Sounds like you need a new woman.
In what we've got going...about once or twice a week, provided we actually get time together.
It also depends on what you mean by a nympho...
In our relationship, it's more me than him. I want it more often than he does, at least I think I do. I'd be happy with 1-4 times a day, every day...but things don't work that way for some people, so I can be content with what I have. It's also the fact that I want it sometimes when he doesn't. It's not that it bothers me, it's not that I'm not satisfied, on the contrary, I am, it's just that after 30, it's pretty impossible for a man to keep up with a woman like that.
I don't know of any man that can keep up with a woman who wants sex that much, but that might be an incorrect assumption.
After 30, it kind of goes down hill, at least for men. Just when women are getting to their stride, men fizzle.

Shael

"After dating a nympho" meant that I was single now. So yeah, you could definitely say I need a new woman...

Posted by bandi Once every 7 months seems to be the norm for me this year... which really sucks after dating a total nympho.

Can I have her number?

Twice a day every day for 10 days while I was in New Mexico.

... Booyah.

I didn't get any when I went to the States. How rude of them.

Posted by Stewie I didn't get any when I went to the States. How rude of them.

You lack boobs and a vagina.
As well as any game whatsoever, and a significant other.

Days past, some little 16-year-old girl talking about getting laid would've been mighty interesting to me.

Instead, now, I'm kinda grossed out and I feel like grounding her.

Gettin' older sucks.