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MindHacker
Location: Suburbs of DC Gender: Male Total Likes: 1 like
If you spot a terrorist arrow, pin it to the wall with your shoulder.
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 13 on 1/26/2010 4:09 AM >
| | | I think Hanlon's Razor would apply here, and you should assume it's being done out of naivete, and that he really doesn't know whether he likes having a gf or not. I didn't even start to understand what I wanted till I was 19. Internally, distance yourself emotionally, externally, hang out for his sake, and perhaps the relationships.
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| Emma Peel
Location: Ahowah Gender: Female Total Likes: 4 likes
Ghosting you like you've never been ghosted before.
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 18 on 1/27/2010 6:07 AM >
| | | Posted by victoria- I just hate being single :C
| I hate this line. It says so much about you. I can relate -- a few years ago, I was barely single for a couple of months in-between relationships. After a very nasty break-up with a very nasty gentleman (oxymoron?), I was reading a book written by a Buddhist nun. She addressed the concept of loneliness, and how we tend to hate it. But she asked the question, "How can you expect someone else to be alone with you, if you can't even be alone with yourself?" She was totally right. I spent six months in an apartment on my own, promised myself not to seriously date anyone during that time, and I ended up lasting about two years (I dated around a bit, but didn't really find anyone I was interested enough in to start a relationship with). I worked a lot on myself during that time. It didn't mean that I turned into an introvert, but quite simply that I learned enough about myself to be happy and secure without an intimate relationship. You're 17, right? Think about YOU five years ago and how different you were, then. And now think about how different you and things will be in five years. You'll do and experience so much greater things in life than this relationship with this one guy. It isn't worth dragging it out; it isn't worth the extra pain. I'm glad that you're happy now but please seriously consider the loneliness concept, above. Note: To those to that know me: STFU.
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