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dirt
Location: Oakland, CA Gender: Male Total Likes: 0 likes
Je suis très aimable et très caustique.
| | | | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 23 on 1/28/2010 10:40 PM >
| | | Posted by Stewie
Very true. I made the same ones myself and I never listened to anybody who shared their wisdom with me. There are some mistakes which must be made to learn important lessons.
| IDK. No one ever really gave me advice, but then again, I was always a bit secretive about my hurts. This I do know: the circle of pain can go three ways that I know of. Repeating the same patterns of abuse out of comfort. (AHEM! clears throat and glares) A pattern of complete rejection of anything resembling past relationships, without changing behaviors. This leads to a constant stream of bad relationships. A systematic processing of every belief, pattern, or action. Constant internal scrutinizing, and rejection of everything immoral, typical, unwanted, etc. While this one may work to bring about longer relationships, it also create in ones self a sense of brokenness that will creep into the rest of your life, causing self to be unstable.(/raises hand) Notice these habits.
| He seemed to move among very delicate objects, on ground mined with goodness knows what precious explosives. ~ Jean Cocteau |
| Emma Peel
Location: Ahowah Gender: Female Total Likes: 4 likes
Ghosting you like you've never been ghosted before.
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 33 on 2/5/2010 4:07 AM >
| | | Posted by victoria-
Well, I personally hate drugs and he loves them. I agreed he can get high and I'll get high with him if it makes him happy and helps us. I'm retarded lol
| Okay. I have to ask you. You're 17. You've got probably a good 60 years ahead of you in life, still. Do you REALLY, HONESTLY believe that dating this guy is the greatest thing you'll do in life? You really believe that? You think that this guy, whom you've SACRIFICED HAPPINESS to? Who is addicted to drugs? Trying to get you to do drugs? Is happy because you're being coerced into doing drugs... you really think that this guy is the BEST THING that will come along in the next 60 years? I mean, even leaving out "best GUY" ever. You don't think you'll do bigger and better things, go to more awesome places, have greater experiences.... than this guy? This guy, whom you've sacrificed happiness for? Whom your values don't even align with? Is he really going to be the GREATEST THING in your life? Because honestly. The greatest man, thing, WHATEVER, in your life... will never be worth sacrificing even a little bit of happiness for. Happiness shouldn't be sacrificed. Ever.
| Sorry, I probably forgot my <sarcasm> tags. |
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