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TrixieSparrow
Location: Hamilton, ON Gender: Female Total Likes: 27 likes
I guess.
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 83 on 5/21/2010 6:44 AM >
| | | I fail to see how she is a troll. Being a stupid kid does not make you a troll. And victoria, if you have a problem with me calling you a stupid kid, then grow up. Jealousy happens, but this guy doesn't just seem jealous, he seems to want to keep you under lock and key. You think that bending over backwards to enable this behavior is a mature and reasonable solution? It's not. When I go exploring with men, my boyfriend is more worried I'm going to fall off of something and die. Because I have a habit of getting to the highest point I can. And that's a reasonable fear. But he never stops me. And I'm more careful because I respect him and how he feels, and he knows this. And so there is no problem. What is your boyfriend afraid of? It seems like anything that involves you having a life outside of him. And it would seem he doesn't give a damn what you want. A bit of jealousy is alright, sometimes even flattering, but not like this. This, combined with the other things you have been telling us, lead me to believe you are in a very sick and poisonous relationship. Are you going to do anything about it? Or just keep asking for our help and then not listening? Because I can hold my hand out to the drowning all I want, and it makes no bit of difference unless they take hold of it and pull themselves out. You're drowning.
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| steponmebbbboom
Total Likes: 0 likes
*NSFW*
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 86 on 5/21/2010 10:02 PM >
| | | Posted by Dresden Being a stupid kid does not make you a troll. <snip> Are you going to do anything about it? Or just keep asking for our help and then not listening?
| Sounds like a troll to me! Posted by Yield Anybody who bitches about not being able to see links and saying the thread should be closed due to it should stfu and wait for the damn fm like the rest of us did. The thread doesn't revolve around you, if you don't like it go start your own one. Cry baby. They were nice enough to cut/paste parts of it for you. | LOL, I never bitched about the FM thread or asked for it to be locked because i couldnt see it, I asked nicely for the coles notes and I got them. (thanks, BTW.) If I wanted FM status I would ask for it, but <snip> I havent bothered. Try paying attention to what I said before putting me on blast. Posted by Yield I agree, she's not being a troll here, just a teenager. <snip> Actually, the first time I met people from UER, I was a seventeen year old girl | You were either nothing like victoria at seventeen or youve smartened up fast. In any case, we've been beating victoria over the head with this particular clue-by-four for over four pages now, and judging by your snips of the FM thread, she learned nothing. Does anyone think another four pages or even four posts are going to accomplish anything? It's either going to go on and on for twelve pages that look exactly like the first four, or degrade into a flame war. Fine, Dont lock it! Waste all the time you want in here youll only prove me right. edit: FM-only snip
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| TrixieSparrow
Location: Hamilton, ON Gender: Female Total Likes: 27 likes
I guess.
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 88 on 5/22/2010 6:35 AM >
| | | This is the relationships board, not the 'is soandso a troll' board. Everyone has been a stupid kid at some point, and if you claim you never were you are dishonest to yourself. So let he who is without sin cast the first stone. And if no perfect specimen can step forward and condemn the girl, let's just carry on with the topic and not get so side tracked. Also snipping out bits of posts removes essential information and makes it seem like something it is not, so please stop, as from my point of view it feels like words are being put in my mouth. Topic, back on it now pls. Victoria, other than that troll discussion (which we should probably all ignore at this point, as it deters from the main issue), what are your thoughts on this all?
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| Lexi
Location: Oslo, Norway Gender: Female Total Likes: 12 likes
I'm getting old.
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 89 on 5/22/2010 12:06 PM >
| | | Posted by Dresden This is the relationships board, not the 'is soandso a troll' board. Everyone has been a stupid kid at some point, and if you claim you never were you are dishonest to yourself. So let he who is without sin cast the first stone. And if no perfect specimen can step forward and condemn the girl, let's just carry on with the topic and not get so side tracked. Also snipping out bits of posts removes essential information and makes it seem like something it is not, so please stop, as from my point of view it feels like words are being put in my mouth. Topic, back on it now pls. Victoria, other than that troll discussion (which we should probably all ignore at this point, as it deters from the main issue), what are your thoughts on this all?
| This is why I love you. Just sayin'.
| [15:00:33] <SeeThirty> cause you're not likely to be anywhere that other people haven't been who didn't have protection [15:00:41] <SeeThirty> still better safe than lexi |
| victoria-
Location: The Great North, Ontario Gender: Female Total Likes: 20 likes
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 90 on 5/24/2010 2:54 PM >
| | | Posted by aurelie I agree, she's not being a troll here, just a teenager. To Victoria, I have to ask: does this mean that he doesn't want you hanging out with male friends while he's not there, or does it only apply to strangers? Most of my current friends are male, and I met quite a few of them via UER. Actually, the first time I met people from UER, I was a seventeen year old girl meeting up with a bunch of strange men to go in a drain.
| I pretty much only have male friends and hes fine with them. Its jsut the strangers. i can see why hes insecure about it because his ex of 2 years fucked him over hard with cheating. Posted by Dresden Victoria, other than that troll discussion (which we should probably all ignore at this point, as it deters from the main issue), what are your thoughts on this all?
| my thoughts on the situation as a whole is hes bad news and bad for me. and i have taken what everyones written here into consideration and its helped me a hell of a lot. I will most likely leave him soon. im just bad a breakups.
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| victoria-
Location: The Great North, Ontario Gender: Female Total Likes: 20 likes
| | | Re: What do i do? < Reply # 92 on 5/24/2010 2:59 PM >
| | | Posted by Dresden I fail to see how she is a troll. Being a stupid kid does not make you a troll. And victoria, if you have a problem with me calling you a stupid kid, then grow up. Jealousy happens, but this guy doesn't just seem jealous, he seems to want to keep you under lock and key. You think that bending over backwards to enable this behavior is a mature and reasonable solution? It's not. When I go exploring with men, my boyfriend is more worried I'm going to fall off of something and die. Because I have a habit of getting to the highest point I can. And that's a reasonable fear. But he never stops me. And I'm more careful because I respect him and how he feels, and he knows this. And so there is no problem. What is your boyfriend afraid of? It seems like anything that involves you having a life outside of him. And it would seem he doesn't give a damn what you want. A bit of jealousy is alright, sometimes even flattering, but not like this. This, combined with the other things you have been telling us, lead me to believe you are in a very sick and poisonous relationship. Are you going to do anything about it? Or just keep asking for our help and then not listening? Because I can hold my hand out to the drowning all I want, and it makes no bit of difference unless they take hold of it and pull themselves out. You're drowning.
| i quite agree im a stupid kid. I am going to get out of this relationship! i think its time to pull the plug on this one. I just have to think of a way to do it.
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